I was having a tough semester this year with and health and failing motivation so I decided to take 2 months break from Uitm and I hope this can help me to recover and regain my passion for working and teaching. But, this 2 months are not to be spent in vain. I know probably most of the time, I'm going to do nothing (ie: staring at the walls, browsing my sms and YouTube) but I do hope I can achieve these:
1. To kick a** in my Master class! Timing could never been better because April and May are the months of my master classes so with no teaching in sight, I can focus more in my studying and have ample time to do the assignments.
2. To enjoy my long awaited honeymoon: Krabi in April, wait for us!!!
3. When I'm at home with my husband, cook at least a meal for him...so far things have been good, I've tried some recipes that I never did and now I'm free, this is the perfect time to add some more recipe in my cooking repetoire. This is going to be very helpful when we move in to our new house, because I'm going to be the head chef! Right now is my mother-in-law and bless her for a lot of healthy and good meals for us.
4. To be healthier...being sick for 4 months has taught me invaluable lesson on health so I'm trying to be heathier now. Eat a lot of good food, exercise, and be happy. I realised that let loose and be happy is the key to be healthy because I remember when I was sick and keep it to myself, I practically let myself dying, but when I'm sick and at least pretending to be happy it does help the healing process.
5. Lastly, to gain some more kilos be back to my normal not really bizzare thin frame...I've lost 18 kilos when I was sick and my pant size shrink 4 size from size 28 to 24...I remember every bone is sticking out from my body and the worst is my tailbone was emerging from behind and sitting is a painful things to do. So far, I've gained back 9 kilos already and I'm 8 kilos short of my original weight...the only drawback of the weight gain is I don't mind to look plumpier at the stomach and tigh part but not in my face!!!
InsyALLAH I hope I can achieve this... :)
Thursday, March 29, 2012
Tuesday, March 6, 2012
How I met my husband...Part 4 (the dinner, the surprise and Harry Potter)
Part 4 continues... (I didn't know there are others except my husband, who I forced to read this but thanks anyway...XOXO)
So after the lunch and the checking, we had a steady routine in our friendship. Sometimes he came over my desk and we chatted, he sent me MMS of his One Piece figurine (which I jealous to see) and always the favorite past time...eat, eat and eat! In the evening, we had tea over a small stall that we called 'bukit'. This teatime was always the part that his friends would start teasing us endlessly and the leader of the pack was always, our over the top divalicious friend Idham (XOXO!). For one, he started calling me 'kakak ipar' which I found embarrassing but flattering at the same time. When they teased us, my husband didn't exactly tried to stop them but he didn't actually add salt to it either. Later in marriage, my husband confided in me that he would sent a 'thank you' sms to Idham for doing it back then. So that's another divine intervention sent from Allah to us, a form that is smart, brutally honest always ever cracks our belly with hilarius poisonous jokes! So, technically Idham was his wing man back then.
As he had his wingman, I had mine although mine was over thousand miles. Whenever something interesting happened, I could always turn to my god given solace friend, Aliaa. At that time, our FB kept 'ding!' because there's always something new to tell (I used broadband at that time, so I did not abuse UiTM wireless connection, ok?). She was very supportive of this new friendship I built and prayed for the best. I think, without her encouragement, I would not have half the gut to pursue this. So for both of you two, only Allah knows how to repay how much you did for us :)
The next excitement of my life was the premiere of the 7th Harry Potter movie! Seriously, I could not wait for the movie to come out that time. The funny thing is Harry Potter and me had a bizarre correlation. One week before the debut of Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, I broke up with my boyfriend of three years and also one week before the premiere of Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince, I pulled the plug on the relationship I had that time. I know as Muslim, I shouldn't be superstitious but honestly, I did have my worries...And something did happen during this Harry Potter moment! But instead of a closure, it was an opening...and opening of my heart...our hearts...
What do you know, he also anticipated the Harry Potter movies as well! So, we decided to watch it together, not as a date but with our friends as well. But the rest was a bit undecided whether they can join us or not. He wanted to bring his little sister and I was racking in my head, since I did not have the guaranteed friend to tag along with me, I needed a plan B, to hijack my friend from Penang, Nadiah.
We plan to watch the movie on the 19th November and conveniently our friend Syai, her wedding was the next day. So, I sms Nadiah to come over from Penang and stay in Melaka with me and we can go together to the movie and the wedding. Thank goodness, she agreed and I was set with a friend for the movie.
We bought the ticket for 1030pm show, so we decided to have dinner at Seoul Garden first. Exams were over, paychecks were in, time to eat big and enjoy! So we met up at Seoul Garden, he with his sister and Nadia with me, table for four...
I was not worried about Nadiah because she is easily sociable (all TESLians are...no rocket science here) and she is a mega hardcore manga fan so there's plenty to talk about without leaving her out. Dinner was fun and with the help of Nadiah, he got a glimpse of how was me during my degree time. He got to know the fun we had, we people we unitedly annoyed and all the projects, vacations and drama on and off when I was studying.
Through the course of dinner, he suddenly said that he had something that he wanted to give to thank me for checking his article. I said he didn't have to but he said it's something that he wanted to do. My initial thought was maybe he would give me just a bar of simple Cadbury that you can get easily at 7E. How little of I knew about him and his character that time was the reason of how little I knew how I should have reacted when I got the surprise.
To my surprise, he gave me chocolate all right but also a bouquet of roses (dark red!) and a card. In my life, aside from stupid request game in high school and during convocation (my last convo, I only got plastic flower from my parents, pretty pathetic) I never ever ever ever ever received roses from anyone! (like I said, I'm not the type of girl who guys see and sing at bar with) so this was big!!! Other than thank you and it's lovely, I didn't remember what else I did. In fact, I think I didn't want to recall, it was so surprising at that time, I'm sure I reacted abnormally...
After dinner, we crossed over to Dataran Pahlawan and watched the movie. During the walk, I remembered that both of us were trying to get over the shock we had during the surprise. I think he also surprised himself when he did that to me. As for me, it was the first of the loveliest thing he did to me. Until now, the string of affection and gesture never stops and I thank Allah for letting him to be mine...
I didn't keep the roses and chocolate anymore, but this is the card that he gave me. Truthfully, I was thankful that it didn't have the word 'love' in it because I had no idea how I'm going react to that!
Continued in Part 5...
So after the lunch and the checking, we had a steady routine in our friendship. Sometimes he came over my desk and we chatted, he sent me MMS of his One Piece figurine (which I jealous to see) and always the favorite past time...eat, eat and eat! In the evening, we had tea over a small stall that we called 'bukit'. This teatime was always the part that his friends would start teasing us endlessly and the leader of the pack was always, our over the top divalicious friend Idham (XOXO!). For one, he started calling me 'kakak ipar' which I found embarrassing but flattering at the same time. When they teased us, my husband didn't exactly tried to stop them but he didn't actually add salt to it either. Later in marriage, my husband confided in me that he would sent a 'thank you' sms to Idham for doing it back then. So that's another divine intervention sent from Allah to us, a form that is smart, brutally honest always ever cracks our belly with hilarius poisonous jokes! So, technically Idham was his wing man back then.
As he had his wingman, I had mine although mine was over thousand miles. Whenever something interesting happened, I could always turn to my god given solace friend, Aliaa. At that time, our FB kept 'ding!' because there's always something new to tell (I used broadband at that time, so I did not abuse UiTM wireless connection, ok?). She was very supportive of this new friendship I built and prayed for the best. I think, without her encouragement, I would not have half the gut to pursue this. So for both of you two, only Allah knows how to repay how much you did for us :)
The next excitement of my life was the premiere of the 7th Harry Potter movie! Seriously, I could not wait for the movie to come out that time. The funny thing is Harry Potter and me had a bizarre correlation. One week before the debut of Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, I broke up with my boyfriend of three years and also one week before the premiere of Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince, I pulled the plug on the relationship I had that time. I know as Muslim, I shouldn't be superstitious but honestly, I did have my worries...And something did happen during this Harry Potter moment! But instead of a closure, it was an opening...and opening of my heart...our hearts...
What do you know, he also anticipated the Harry Potter movies as well! So, we decided to watch it together, not as a date but with our friends as well. But the rest was a bit undecided whether they can join us or not. He wanted to bring his little sister and I was racking in my head, since I did not have the guaranteed friend to tag along with me, I needed a plan B, to hijack my friend from Penang, Nadiah.
We plan to watch the movie on the 19th November and conveniently our friend Syai, her wedding was the next day. So, I sms Nadiah to come over from Penang and stay in Melaka with me and we can go together to the movie and the wedding. Thank goodness, she agreed and I was set with a friend for the movie.
We bought the ticket for 1030pm show, so we decided to have dinner at Seoul Garden first. Exams were over, paychecks were in, time to eat big and enjoy! So we met up at Seoul Garden, he with his sister and Nadia with me, table for four...
I was not worried about Nadiah because she is easily sociable (all TESLians are...no rocket science here) and she is a mega hardcore manga fan so there's plenty to talk about without leaving her out. Dinner was fun and with the help of Nadiah, he got a glimpse of how was me during my degree time. He got to know the fun we had, we people we unitedly annoyed and all the projects, vacations and drama on and off when I was studying.
Through the course of dinner, he suddenly said that he had something that he wanted to give to thank me for checking his article. I said he didn't have to but he said it's something that he wanted to do. My initial thought was maybe he would give me just a bar of simple Cadbury that you can get easily at 7E. How little of I knew about him and his character that time was the reason of how little I knew how I should have reacted when I got the surprise.
To my surprise, he gave me chocolate all right but also a bouquet of roses (dark red!) and a card. In my life, aside from stupid request game in high school and during convocation (my last convo, I only got plastic flower from my parents, pretty pathetic) I never ever ever ever ever received roses from anyone! (like I said, I'm not the type of girl who guys see and sing at bar with) so this was big!!! Other than thank you and it's lovely, I didn't remember what else I did. In fact, I think I didn't want to recall, it was so surprising at that time, I'm sure I reacted abnormally...
After dinner, we crossed over to Dataran Pahlawan and watched the movie. During the walk, I remembered that both of us were trying to get over the shock we had during the surprise. I think he also surprised himself when he did that to me. As for me, it was the first of the loveliest thing he did to me. Until now, the string of affection and gesture never stops and I thank Allah for letting him to be mine...
I didn't keep the roses and chocolate anymore, but this is the card that he gave me. Truthfully, I was thankful that it didn't have the word 'love' in it because I had no idea how I'm going react to that!
Continued in Part 5...
Monday, March 5, 2012
How I met my husband...Part 3 (the sms, the third lunch and the review)
Part 3 continues...
So after the night, I got over my initial nervousness (not many guys can make me feel that, clear sign he's someone special!) and I started being cool with myself and the joy of getting to know him. So we started to know each other through casual conversation, he returned my external, sometimes we talked about One Piece or the final exam and mundane things in our life.
One night, I was driving back home for my Master class and to play with my nephew and niece. Suddenly he sms me the usual I hate 'buat ape tu?' sms. That was the first time he sent me that kind of sms and that's also the first time I felt happy receiving that kind of sms. The fact that each will cost me 50 cents faded, I was overwhelm by the gesture he did to me at that time, the fact that he took the time and trouble to send me the message.
I told him that I was going home to see my nephew and niece and he was surprised to find out that I was already an aunt. It was a short sms moment as he wanted me to be careful on the road. But in my heart, I knew this moment has started something, it was telling me that he also wanted to get to know me better that both of us are ready to get to next phase of our friendship.
I found myself wanting to get closer to him but I didn't want to be too obvious, I need to play the game well, I didn't want to crowd him or turned him off by being too aggressive. My mind was reeling at that time, what can I do to have a good time together but not being too forward? The answer came easy to me. A get together lunch! I figured that way I can kill two birds with one stone, One: I can get a hang out time with him like I hoped and Two: I would be able to demonstrate my cooking skill because I always believe a way through a man's heart is by his stomach.I hosted a lunch hour with him and my colleagues and as usual, I made my sure-kill menu, Bolognaise! And thank goodness, he loved it! Afterwards, he sent me another sms, thanking me for the trouble that I had preparing lunch. I felt a knot in my stomach that has nothing to do with the food I had just eaten when I received it.
The next week, he asked me for a favor. He wanted to send an article for conference or for publishing(see, I did forget!) and he asked me to review it for grammar errors. I was ok with it and in fact I flattered because out of all English lecturer available around him (let's see, there was me, Reiko, Azu, Julie, Pipa, Piqa...) he picked me! He wanted me, not the others!! Other reason that made me flattered was he recognized me as a competent English lecturer,a pride that I hold dear in my heart. Because in my life right now, aside from marrying him, English has always been the only thing that I feel I have done right in my life. It's my treasure, my gift and my talent. See, I'm not skilled somewhere else, I'm suck at Maths, I'm a terrible housekeeper and I can't draw at all! English is all I got!
What I found out during the checking was with him, it's easy to be honest. Before we start, he asked whether there are a lot to go through in his paper and was it really bad in term of language and grammar. Being Malay, we are taught to be kind and 'berlapik' in our comments and usually I will answer like 'not really' or 'they're ok' if someone asked me that question. But when he asked me that question, I can tell that he can handle the brutal truth so I answered honestly that it's quite bad and there's a lot to go through. I can see his face was dropped a little, but we got over it and went through the checking.
When we went through the checking, I was surprised of how open minded and honest he was with me too. I think he did feel a bit embarrassed because as a full fledged lecturer, there were some errors that he felt he should not have committed but for the benefit of learning, I can see that he put his ego aside, so that he can learn. Another trait that made me become more attracted to him.
During the third lunch, I've forgotten that he was thinner back then.
Continued in part 4...
So after the night, I got over my initial nervousness (not many guys can make me feel that, clear sign he's someone special!) and I started being cool with myself and the joy of getting to know him. So we started to know each other through casual conversation, he returned my external, sometimes we talked about One Piece or the final exam and mundane things in our life.
One night, I was driving back home for my Master class and to play with my nephew and niece. Suddenly he sms me the usual I hate 'buat ape tu?' sms. That was the first time he sent me that kind of sms and that's also the first time I felt happy receiving that kind of sms. The fact that each will cost me 50 cents faded, I was overwhelm by the gesture he did to me at that time, the fact that he took the time and trouble to send me the message.
I told him that I was going home to see my nephew and niece and he was surprised to find out that I was already an aunt. It was a short sms moment as he wanted me to be careful on the road. But in my heart, I knew this moment has started something, it was telling me that he also wanted to get to know me better that both of us are ready to get to next phase of our friendship.
I found myself wanting to get closer to him but I didn't want to be too obvious, I need to play the game well, I didn't want to crowd him or turned him off by being too aggressive. My mind was reeling at that time, what can I do to have a good time together but not being too forward? The answer came easy to me. A get together lunch! I figured that way I can kill two birds with one stone, One: I can get a hang out time with him like I hoped and Two: I would be able to demonstrate my cooking skill because I always believe a way through a man's heart is by his stomach.I hosted a lunch hour with him and my colleagues and as usual, I made my sure-kill menu, Bolognaise! And thank goodness, he loved it! Afterwards, he sent me another sms, thanking me for the trouble that I had preparing lunch. I felt a knot in my stomach that has nothing to do with the food I had just eaten when I received it.
The next week, he asked me for a favor. He wanted to send an article for conference or for publishing(see, I did forget!) and he asked me to review it for grammar errors. I was ok with it and in fact I flattered because out of all English lecturer available around him (let's see, there was me, Reiko, Azu, Julie, Pipa, Piqa...) he picked me! He wanted me, not the others!! Other reason that made me flattered was he recognized me as a competent English lecturer,a pride that I hold dear in my heart. Because in my life right now, aside from marrying him, English has always been the only thing that I feel I have done right in my life. It's my treasure, my gift and my talent. See, I'm not skilled somewhere else, I'm suck at Maths, I'm a terrible housekeeper and I can't draw at all! English is all I got!
What I found out during the checking was with him, it's easy to be honest. Before we start, he asked whether there are a lot to go through in his paper and was it really bad in term of language and grammar. Being Malay, we are taught to be kind and 'berlapik' in our comments and usually I will answer like 'not really' or 'they're ok' if someone asked me that question. But when he asked me that question, I can tell that he can handle the brutal truth so I answered honestly that it's quite bad and there's a lot to go through. I can see his face was dropped a little, but we got over it and went through the checking.
When we went through the checking, I was surprised of how open minded and honest he was with me too. I think he did feel a bit embarrassed because as a full fledged lecturer, there were some errors that he felt he should not have committed but for the benefit of learning, I can see that he put his ego aside, so that he can learn. Another trait that made me become more attracted to him.
During the third lunch, I've forgotten that he was thinner back then.
Continued in part 4...
Sunday, March 4, 2012
How I met my husband...Part 2 (the second lunch)
Continued after part 1...
Remember I wrote that it only took 24 hours for us to notice each other? It did in a different place but the same activity, lunch!
I had finished marking my final exam and Reiko, my friend had some problems with hers so she wanted to blow off some steam and she suggested that we went to Dataran Pahlawan and eat at Zen, the place that had the best chocolate lava ever! Since I was free and available, I said yeah and I asked another friend of mine, Baya if she wanted to come too.
5 minutes before we took off, Reiko asked me if I mind to pick her friend at the city campus to join us for lunch because he wanted to meet his friends afterwards. I did not mind at all because the city campus is along the way to Dataran Pahlawan so I said yes and the friend that she brought turned out to be...my husband!!
So there we were, four of us so it was easier for us to notice each other. I was friendly and so was he therefore there were never really awkward moment between us. What really kicked off between us was I found out that we shared one common interest, the Japanese manga One Piece. He mentioned that he downloaded every single one of One Piece episode and I at that time was catching up with the Impel Down saga so I asked him if he could transfer the episode in my external hard disk, which was for no apparent reason was in my handbag. Then I did the thing that I normally, almost never do,giving him my phone number! I'm a friendly gal, yeah but I have this rule of not giving out my phone number until it was safe to do so. Because I am not the type of girl who loved the suddenly 'hi' sms or 'buat ape tu?' sms. I used bill, each sms cost me 50cents dammit!
So after lunch, we left him there because he said that he was going to meet his friends afterwards. Along the way home, I had a thought in my mind that keep saying 'A next door guy who is crazy about manga and hardcore gamer, where in the world would I find that type?' and what's more bizarre is I find his knack of maintaining the pronoun 'saya' in conversation is highly attractive. The voice kept telling me to go for it, he's the kind of guy that is worth getting to know, divine intervention right?
When I got home, the first thing I did was to check out the manga website, to see whether One Piece chapter was up. There was a new chapter so for the next 15 minutes my mind was focusing on reading the chapter. Once done, my thought went back to him and I was telling myself 'should I sms him, should I not?' In the end I caved in and I sms him telling him that the new chapter was awesome. His next reply was to ask who I was and I realized that he hadn't saved my number because I wrote mine on a tissue paper. So I told him I was the gal that gave you the number and asked to give me One Piece episodes. He remembered and he replied he made sure he checked the new chapter once he got home. I wonder what was he thinking when he received that sms? Maybe I'll ask him tonight... :)
This is the cover of the One Piece chapter that I read after the lunch, it was the episode when they descendant to Fishman Island and about to meet Kraken. Kraken then becomes another part that further glued our relationship... :)
Continued in Part 3...
Remember I wrote that it only took 24 hours for us to notice each other? It did in a different place but the same activity, lunch!
I had finished marking my final exam and Reiko, my friend had some problems with hers so she wanted to blow off some steam and she suggested that we went to Dataran Pahlawan and eat at Zen, the place that had the best chocolate lava ever! Since I was free and available, I said yeah and I asked another friend of mine, Baya if she wanted to come too.
5 minutes before we took off, Reiko asked me if I mind to pick her friend at the city campus to join us for lunch because he wanted to meet his friends afterwards. I did not mind at all because the city campus is along the way to Dataran Pahlawan so I said yes and the friend that she brought turned out to be...my husband!!
So there we were, four of us so it was easier for us to notice each other. I was friendly and so was he therefore there were never really awkward moment between us. What really kicked off between us was I found out that we shared one common interest, the Japanese manga One Piece. He mentioned that he downloaded every single one of One Piece episode and I at that time was catching up with the Impel Down saga so I asked him if he could transfer the episode in my external hard disk, which was for no apparent reason was in my handbag. Then I did the thing that I normally, almost never do,giving him my phone number! I'm a friendly gal, yeah but I have this rule of not giving out my phone number until it was safe to do so. Because I am not the type of girl who loved the suddenly 'hi' sms or 'buat ape tu?' sms. I used bill, each sms cost me 50cents dammit!
So after lunch, we left him there because he said that he was going to meet his friends afterwards. Along the way home, I had a thought in my mind that keep saying 'A next door guy who is crazy about manga and hardcore gamer, where in the world would I find that type?' and what's more bizarre is I find his knack of maintaining the pronoun 'saya' in conversation is highly attractive. The voice kept telling me to go for it, he's the kind of guy that is worth getting to know, divine intervention right?
When I got home, the first thing I did was to check out the manga website, to see whether One Piece chapter was up. There was a new chapter so for the next 15 minutes my mind was focusing on reading the chapter. Once done, my thought went back to him and I was telling myself 'should I sms him, should I not?' In the end I caved in and I sms him telling him that the new chapter was awesome. His next reply was to ask who I was and I realized that he hadn't saved my number because I wrote mine on a tissue paper. So I told him I was the gal that gave you the number and asked to give me One Piece episodes. He remembered and he replied he made sure he checked the new chapter once he got home. I wonder what was he thinking when he received that sms? Maybe I'll ask him tonight... :)
This is the cover of the One Piece chapter that I read after the lunch, it was the episode when they descendant to Fishman Island and about to meet Kraken. Kraken then becomes another part that further glued our relationship... :)
Continued in Part 3...
How I met my husband...Part 1 (the first lunch and how it all started)
Not in one million years I'm telling this story to brag (no one reads this crap anyway) but I'm writing this just in case if little nicos will ask someday and I blurred on the details so this will do (everything on the internet stays forever right?)
If I have one word to describe everything that happen between us, it will be 'divine intervention' (so what if it is two words, it's not a contest). First, let me tell you a bit of my previous life, my life before I met him. I had met a lot of guys, nice ones, jerks ones, real jack-ass ones but if I have to say how many serious relationship I've had before I've met him, it would be two. One lasted for three years and it's over because I caught him cheating on me...twice and one more lasted 3 months because family objections. At 26 and most of my friends have settled down and I wasn't exactly the type of girl who guys see and sing at bar with, I figured I am content with what I had, a job, mama and abah, my bestfriend Aliaa and my love for movies.
Settling with that, I kinda excuse myself from the dating scene, no one date, no internet dating, no nothing. I knew at that time mama was very concern about me. I'm living quite far, no one exactly close to help me by. She was even upset when she found out that there were no single guys in my Master classes! But being stubborn, I said to my mom that I was fine the way I was.
Why am I saying it's divine intervention because of the conversation I had the night before I met him. My bestfriend, Aliaa was calling me from UK and we had a heart to heart talk. I remember telling her that my colleague and me had an eye candy with one of our male colleague and I told Aliaa blatantly that I kinda miss being back in the game of dating. The get to know part, the dress up and look nice part, the dinner part. I had no idea that these testament turned to bite me in the most wonderful I could have imagined.
The next day, my friends from work decided to have a little get together. The semester has ended, finals were in. Who knows the 'little' gathering turned out to be a big group lunch because some friends were bringing other friends and guess what? One of my friends brought him! But we didn't really notice each other at that time because I had to leave early for work purpose and he was busy with my other friend at that time but it didn't take long for us to notice each other, really it's only 24 hours after that lunch...
The big lunch aka the first time we met. I was not in the picture because I was the camerawoman and funny thing is I was also not in the one that he took because he asked me to take the picture, pretty coincidence right?
Continued in part 2...
If I have one word to describe everything that happen between us, it will be 'divine intervention' (so what if it is two words, it's not a contest). First, let me tell you a bit of my previous life, my life before I met him. I had met a lot of guys, nice ones, jerks ones, real jack-ass ones but if I have to say how many serious relationship I've had before I've met him, it would be two. One lasted for three years and it's over because I caught him cheating on me...twice and one more lasted 3 months because family objections. At 26 and most of my friends have settled down and I wasn't exactly the type of girl who guys see and sing at bar with, I figured I am content with what I had, a job, mama and abah, my bestfriend Aliaa and my love for movies.
Settling with that, I kinda excuse myself from the dating scene, no one date, no internet dating, no nothing. I knew at that time mama was very concern about me. I'm living quite far, no one exactly close to help me by. She was even upset when she found out that there were no single guys in my Master classes! But being stubborn, I said to my mom that I was fine the way I was.
Why am I saying it's divine intervention because of the conversation I had the night before I met him. My bestfriend, Aliaa was calling me from UK and we had a heart to heart talk. I remember telling her that my colleague and me had an eye candy with one of our male colleague and I told Aliaa blatantly that I kinda miss being back in the game of dating. The get to know part, the dress up and look nice part, the dinner part. I had no idea that these testament turned to bite me in the most wonderful I could have imagined.
The next day, my friends from work decided to have a little get together. The semester has ended, finals were in. Who knows the 'little' gathering turned out to be a big group lunch because some friends were bringing other friends and guess what? One of my friends brought him! But we didn't really notice each other at that time because I had to leave early for work purpose and he was busy with my other friend at that time but it didn't take long for us to notice each other, really it's only 24 hours after that lunch...
The big lunch aka the first time we met. I was not in the picture because I was the camerawoman and funny thing is I was also not in the one that he took because he asked me to take the picture, pretty coincidence right?
Continued in part 2...
Friday, March 2, 2012
Things to look forward...
Life is too short to feel sad, so let's compile the list of things that keep you alive!
1. Mama's return! (just a few more hours to go) here's hoping mama will have a blessing umrah, Amin
2. The semester's ending
3. The end of April, so we can go to our honeymoon, Krabi, wait for us!
4. The completion of our house, maybe the end of the year
5. Finish my master, so I can finally say I'm a lecturer
6. My sisters' wedding, so mama will finally be relieved and start worrying on other things...
7. En suami's confirmation status, so proud of him...
8. And last, maybe little nicos along the way....?
I never thought in a million years that I would achieve this but now that I have, I thank Allah for blessing me with so many gifts to make my life happy...Alhamdulliah
1. Mama's return! (just a few more hours to go) here's hoping mama will have a blessing umrah, Amin
2. The semester's ending
3. The end of April, so we can go to our honeymoon, Krabi, wait for us!
4. The completion of our house, maybe the end of the year
5. Finish my master, so I can finally say I'm a lecturer
6. My sisters' wedding, so mama will finally be relieved and start worrying on other things...
7. En suami's confirmation status, so proud of him...
8. And last, maybe little nicos along the way....?
I never thought in a million years that I would achieve this but now that I have, I thank Allah for blessing me with so many gifts to make my life happy...Alhamdulliah
Thursday, March 1, 2012
Review: Our pre-honeymoon: Genting Highland
I can't believe how time actually flies by so fast. It has been 5 months since I got married to my husband! I feel blessed and happy with all the love, the only drawback is we rarely have a private moment, since we're living with my in-laws while waiting for our house to finish.
We had arranged for a honeymoon to Krabi on November but due to my health, we were forced to cancel the trip. So now my heatlh is better, we decided to have a mini honeymoon in Genting Highland instead last weekend.
From Bangi. we enter Karak highway to Genting. The road was a bit trikcy but compared to the road to Cameron Highland and the treacherous Bukit Fraser, this one is farbetter.
since he was driving, there's no picture of me in the car... :)
We arrive at Genting at 10.30am. My god, it's cold up there!!! I thought the weather is like Cameron Highland as it gets warmer approaching noon but no, Genting was cold, cold, cold! We left our bags in the car and first thing we did was to find the ticket counter.
There are a lot of counters there so we didn't line for long to get our ticket. We opted for the All Park pass for one day so we have access to most of the game for outdoor and indoor themepark. For both of us, it costs about RM130. Well, he's paying so I'm fine with that.
The themepark was not really packed so walking around was quite a breeze. We went for the boat rides first.
our view from the boat rides.
15 minutes after the boat rides, we went to my favorite game, the Sungai Rajang cruise! It's the water-log rides that will get you wet! It's quite fast and my husband was already fidgeting as he has issues with anything that is fast, high altitude and requires seatbelts. Luckily, we made it out alive, only scarred by our clothes being drenched from the water and a rush of adrenaline to our heart.
Two wet people after the big splash
After the splash, we dried ourselves at the outdoor cafe. The sun was already high up in the sky but the cold breeze made it so refreshing so we lazed around and waited for the clothes and us to dry.
Cold but happy people
The rest of the day, we split between the indoor and outdoor parks. Since my husband is afraid of the thrill rides, we didn't go for the main attraction (corkscrew, space shot) but still it was a good holiday. Only the downside is the food over there is quite expensive so if you plan early, it's better to bring a picnic basket to save you a couple of bucks.
The next day, we went to Bukit Tinggi. There's nothing much to do over there but the scenery is really beautiful so there's a lot of photographer addict around. It makes me want to put my feeble Lumix away, peer pressure I guess.
with our souveneir from genting
I like this picture the most
This one remind me of Beauty and the Beast
For mini honeymoon, I had so much fun with just the two of us. A weekend away from familiarity, it's good to nurture our relationship. Now, we are waiting for Krabi in April, our official honeymoon!!!
We had arranged for a honeymoon to Krabi on November but due to my health, we were forced to cancel the trip. So now my heatlh is better, we decided to have a mini honeymoon in Genting Highland instead last weekend.
From Bangi. we enter Karak highway to Genting. The road was a bit trikcy but compared to the road to Cameron Highland and the treacherous Bukit Fraser, this one is farbetter.
since he was driving, there's no picture of me in the car... :)We arrive at Genting at 10.30am. My god, it's cold up there!!! I thought the weather is like Cameron Highland as it gets warmer approaching noon but no, Genting was cold, cold, cold! We left our bags in the car and first thing we did was to find the ticket counter.
There are a lot of counters there so we didn't line for long to get our ticket. We opted for the All Park pass for one day so we have access to most of the game for outdoor and indoor themepark. For both of us, it costs about RM130. Well, he's paying so I'm fine with that.
The themepark was not really packed so walking around was quite a breeze. We went for the boat rides first.
our view from the boat rides.
15 minutes after the boat rides, we went to my favorite game, the Sungai Rajang cruise! It's the water-log rides that will get you wet! It's quite fast and my husband was already fidgeting as he has issues with anything that is fast, high altitude and requires seatbelts. Luckily, we made it out alive, only scarred by our clothes being drenched from the water and a rush of adrenaline to our heart.
Two wet people after the big splash
After the splash, we dried ourselves at the outdoor cafe. The sun was already high up in the sky but the cold breeze made it so refreshing so we lazed around and waited for the clothes and us to dry.
Cold but happy people
The rest of the day, we split between the indoor and outdoor parks. Since my husband is afraid of the thrill rides, we didn't go for the main attraction (corkscrew, space shot) but still it was a good holiday. Only the downside is the food over there is quite expensive so if you plan early, it's better to bring a picnic basket to save you a couple of bucks.
The next day, we went to Bukit Tinggi. There's nothing much to do over there but the scenery is really beautiful so there's a lot of photographer addict around. It makes me want to put my feeble Lumix away, peer pressure I guess.
with our souveneir from genting
I like this picture the most
This one remind me of Beauty and the Beast
For mini honeymoon, I had so much fun with just the two of us. A weekend away from familiarity, it's good to nurture our relationship. Now, we are waiting for Krabi in April, our official honeymoon!!!
I was thinking about you, can't believe you still here...
I just realize it's been two years since I haven't blog. I thought that my blog had died but here you are...maybe I'll start writing again...to let off some steam...
Two years, a lot has changed. The most obvious is, I am no longer single!!! I got married 5 months ago. I feel lucky to have met my husband who is kind, generous, a bit cheeky and most importantly loves me for who I am...
There are some thing that stay the same, I'm still teaching at the same place but now I have my own office!!! Alhamdulliah, good things come to those who wait...
I think I'm gonna write something about my recent trip to Genting with my husband after this...
Two years, a lot has changed. The most obvious is, I am no longer single!!! I got married 5 months ago. I feel lucky to have met my husband who is kind, generous, a bit cheeky and most importantly loves me for who I am...
There are some thing that stay the same, I'm still teaching at the same place but now I have my own office!!! Alhamdulliah, good things come to those who wait...
I think I'm gonna write something about my recent trip to Genting with my husband after this...
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